I like contrasts. I like seeing a jeans-and-a-tshirt guy wearing a suit. I like to see a button-down guy get dirty and sweaty. I like to hang out with people who have combat boots next to running shoes next to fancy dress shoes in their closet - all worn and comfortable on their feet. I like a guy who can enjoy cheap street food but who also appreciates the subtleties of good wine or scotch. I like learning from people who have strong opinions but open minds. I like to talk to men who can express themselves but can also shut up and listen.